The first dating idea for any man is to make a good impression. In your doing so, you don't have to talk, dress or do the common things that all the Toms do to get a decent girl's attention. Be unique, that's all you need. Be a man of his own style. Dress decently - indecency can make one be mistaken for arrogance; watch your language - obscene language gives the impression of immaturity, being uncultured and cheap; be a man of good habits - don't drink or smoke like any other loser.
How to make her fall in love with you? Take your time. Add some romance to your dating style. When in College I had a crush on the most beautiful lady in our first year lot. Though all senior guys were out to get that girl, I managed to divert her attention from the other guys. I wrote her three letters without disclosing my identity and slid into her room secretly; all I said was 'Yours Secret Admirer.' The first letter contained the meaning of her name, this I got by playing around with the initials of her name to make meaning. The second was a funny message that could only be read backwards and it was all about her physique and her smartness. In the third letter I told the girl to be ready to receive a rose flower from her admirer, but only if she could be kind enough to phone him using a number that I had included in the letter. The girl did phone me that very night, and her first words to me were, "Hallo Secret Admirer." So, the story of our love affair came to be. Later she told me that was so creative of me, no one had approached her in that manner. I made her fall in love with me and made a date in the romantic manner.
Befriending and understanding the girl you are out to get is the next important thing. This is what I also did. You have to understand that as a lady, she loves to be loved, adores to be adored and needs to be needed. This will move you closer to the girl and you'll get to know what she's into, what she likes and dislikes, and what her style is. Love is built upon friendship and it always leaves individuals better off having known each other should they break up. I and my College steady were to break some time later but to date, we are the best of buddies. Be sure that bringing out the selflessness friend in you will make her create room for you in her heart.
A shoulder to lean on and some good friend that she can always turn to is all that a lady wants. Please don't hesitate to be helpful and supportive. Be that friend who rekindles her zeal of hardworking and restoring hope back into her life when she looses hope. This above all other things will make you her daily vitamin simply because you bring out the best in her in terms of personality and character. In you, she'll have found that friend whom she can open up to, share with and advice each other on the rights and wrongs, the dos and don'ts of life. Don't forget to always be there to celebrate the good times, and to lend an ear when the girl needs you to listen as a friend.
Make the girl feel special; because she's someone's friend - your friend, and let her know that she too has touched your life in a unique way like no one else could. Compliment her for her company and for being there when you needed her, when you felt sad and all alone. Show appreciations for the comfort the girl offers you and for making you smile.
In your day to day talks, share your dreams, your world, and every aspect of your life with your girl. Always dream with her, build with her, and always cheer her on and encourage her. Tell your girl how you always think about her even when you try not to think about her. Let the girl know that she's your first thing in the morning and the last thing when you go to bed at night.
Her knowing that you were thinking of her when you slipped beneath the softness of your blanket and gave in to the bliss of sweet dreams, will make her go 'my my' and her heart will sing your name all the year round.
You have to be creative and constructive to keep girl's interest in you so full of life. I remember one time I told my girlfriend to be to imagine we are both deaf and dump. We then sat opposite each other on the table and started sharing our feelings for each other using eyes and hand signs. It turned out to be some fun. There was also this time that we were in the library and we decided we are not going to speak to each other verbal, so I wrote a love note on a paper and passed it across the table to her, she replied and on and on we carried on our love on paper conversation till we almost exhausted a whole rim of paper. At sometime, I noticed that some guys sited with us on the table were enjoying our ordeal than their studies. Such are the things that made the girl embrace my world. I remember her suggesting that we play deaf and dump two years after we broke up, can you imagine that?
Never fail to phone her, even when she least expects it. I once called some girl that I was interested in at four o'clock in the morning. When inquiring of what I was doing up so early, I told her I was in thirteenth heaven, where people think of their loved ones when they can't sleep. Wow! First thing early the next morning, she was at my door with a king-sized hug for me. No matter how many dates you take her, don't make any elbow - exceeding moves after any date, just drop her home and with a friendly handshake, wish her good night. Don't kiss her when she expects you to. Your respect as a gentleman will be earned on how patient you are with her when it comes to such matters as kissing her and accessing her inner graces.
The writing is on the wall that you want her, but you can't have her just yet. Increase your demand. Try to show her that men are also hard to get at times. Make her realize that when she feels a little dizzy, a little tired, a little sad, a little sick, a lot bored and very much cold, she's actually missing vitamin you. By this time, she'll be so much into you and since love is truthful and is characterized by open and honest communication, honestly promise her your everlasting devotion, loyalty, respect, and your unconditional love for a lifetime. Prove to her that you'll always be there for her, to listen and to hold her hand, and that you'll always do your best to make her happy, and feel loved.
Remember, patience is the key to her heart; be like that gardener watching a fruit as it hangs on the tree, day after day admiring it, but, exercising tremendous self-discipline, neither feeling the fruit, nor pinching it, nor testing it to see if it is ready. And then, one day he holds out his hand and the fruit simply drops into it, ripe, warm and eager to be eaten.
The patience and self-control which you practice will make you more attractive and charming. This will qualify you as her daily vitamin and win you that heart hers.
I wish you to meet the girl of your dreams ASAP, make her fall in love with you, and make her feel the happiest girl in the world!
My name is Donald and like you, I’ve been in the position where I wanted to meet and attract more beautiful girls of my choice. Soon I understood that only deep conversations can make a girl fall in love with you without much struggle.
The Flirt Mastery Program
Romantic Words used with care are sure to help immeasurably in getting a girl or woman to fall in love with you. According to Adam Lyons, “…having a conversation is the most piercing and personal means we have for intimately communicating between two lovers emotionally.
Steve Scott, an expert on dating and marriage relationships and the author of the program “Flirt Mastery Program”. Adam Lyons's “PUA Dating” program has retained it’s ranking as the top most effective guide for getting a woman to fall in love.
The book provides comprehensive relationship advice in addition to using conversations to get your girlfriend flat out interested in you. Using conversation scenarios and already-prepared conversation talks that men can start using on their lovers right away.
About The Book Program:
“Flirt Mastery Program” is a complete system of seducing and making a girl you desire fall in love with you. Written and Prepared by Steve Scott designed to use simple powerful tool of conversation to win the heart of the woman you desire. To attract a girlfriend you love and get her to commit to you. Steve Scott promises to walk you through a step-by-step system of seduction with your lover using pure conversations to create emotional influence on your girlfriend, even if your girlfriend has been acting cold and distant. Steve's system of seduction has high success rate and works better even if your girlfriend already has another serious boyfriend who's got a grip on her; making your ex forget other partners.
Steve teaches that you've got to make a woman feel attraction, by communicating with her in a specific manner from the moment you meet. This act is often called flirting. It’s a secret language that is totally different from the common “let’s be friends” conversation. you can even win the heart of a girl who already has a boyfriend.
Why Conversation is a great tool for winning the heart of a girlfriend?
You and I know that most ladies don't believe when you tell them that you love them. Why? it's because they will tell that they've heard the same phrase over and over again from other admirers. You must trigger her emotions. Only conversations with her can help you do this. She has to feel that the "I love you" words came out of your heart and not from your head. And it has to be an emotional approach. These are some of the primary skills Steve Scott reveals in his national best selling book titled “PUA Dating”. With conversations you have time to rephrase everything into the right words. A guy can meet a beautiful lady with a nice personality and feel love for her. But for ladies, Love is emotional and that’s the reason why conversations are superior, helping you send out your emotions to her heart.
How Steve's System Works
Regardless of your situation Steve's program has proven to help guys get their girlfriends to commit and bond in love. It's amazing, the results within few weeks a lot of guys have attested that Steve's system of dating is effective. What’s your situation? No matter how difficult it seems trying to get your girlfriend to love you just like you love her. When a woman really loves you, you will know it. In “Flirt Mastery Program”, Steve promises to help boost your relationship and make your girlfriend desire you with all her heart. Here's Steve's website again: PUA Dating.